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The following is an email I got from my mom. Being over 40 I can certainly empathise:
Growing up without a cellphone.
When I was a kid, adults used to bore me to tears with their tedious
diatribes about how hard things were. When they were growing up; what with
walking twenty-five miles to school every morning.... Uphill...
Barefoot...
BOTH ways...yadda, yadda, yadda
And I remember promising myself that when I grew up, there was no way in
hell I was going to lay a bunch of crap like that on my kids about how
hard
I had it and how easy they've got it
But now that I'm over the ripe old age of forty, I can't help but look
around and notice the youth of today. You've got it so easy! I mean,
compared to my childhood, you live in a damn Utopia! And I hate to say
it,
but you kids today, you don't know how good you've got it!
1) I mean, when I was a kid we didn't have the Internet. If we wanted to
know something, we had to go to the damn library and look it up ourselves,
in the card catalog!!
2) There was no email!! We had to actually write somebody a letter -
with
a pen! Then you had to walk all the way across the street and put it in
the
mailbox, and it would take like a week to get there! Stamps were 10
cents!
3) Child Protective Services didn't care if our parents beat us. As a
matter of fact, the parents of all my friends also had permission to kick
our butts! Nowhere was safe!
4) There were no MP3s or Napsters or iTunes! If you wanted to steal
music,
you had to hitchhike to the record store and shoplift it yourself!
5) Or you had to wait around all day to tape it off the radio, and the DJ
would usually talk over the beginning and @#*% it all up! There were no
CD
players! We had tape decks in our car. We'd play our favorite tape and
"eject" it when finished, and then the tape would come undone rendering it
useless. Cause, hey, that's how we rolled, Baby! Dig?
6) We didn't have fancy crap like Call Waiting! If you were on the phone
and somebody else called, they got a busy signal, that's it!
7) There weren't any freakin' cell phones either. If you left the house,
you just didn't make a damn call or receive one. You actually had to be
out
of touch with your "friends". OH MY GOSH !!! Think of the horror... not
being in touch with someone 24/7!!! And then there's TEXTING. Yeah,
right.
Please! You kids have no idea how annoying you are.
8) And we didn't have fancy Caller ID either! When the phone rang, you
had
no idea who it was! It could be your school, your parents, your boss,
your
bookie, your drug dealer, the collection agent... you just didn't know!!!
You had to pick it up and take your chances, mister!
9) We didn't have any fancy PlayStation or Xbox video games with
high-resolution 3-D graphics! We had the Atari 2600! With games like
'Space Invaders' and 'Asteroids'. Your screen guy was a little square!
You actually had to use your imagination!!! And there were no multiple
levels or screens, it was just one screen. Forever! And you could never
win. The game just kept getting harder and harder and faster and faster
until you died! Just like LIFE!
10) You had to use a little book called a TV Guide to find out what was
on!
You were screwed when it came to channel surfing! You had to get off your
ass and walk over to the TV to change the channel!!! NO REMOTES!!! Oh,
no, what's the world coming to?!?!
11) There was no Cartoon Network either! You could only get cartoons on
Saturday Morning. Do you hear what I'm saying? We had to wait ALL WEEK
for
cartoons, you spoiled little rats!
12) And we didn't have microwaves. If we wanted to heat something up, we
had to use the stove! Imagine that!
13) And our parents told us to stay outside and play... all day long.
Oh,
no, no electronics to soothe and comfort. And if you came back inside...
you were doing chores!
14) And car seats - oh, please! Mom threw you in the back seat and you
hung on. If you were lucky, you got the "safety arm" across the chest at
the last moment if she had to stop suddenly, and if your head hit the
dashboard, well that was your fault for calling "shot gun" in the first
place!
See! That's exactly what I'm talking about! You kids today have got
it too easy. You're spoiled rotten! You guys wouldn't have lasted five
minutes back in 1970 or any time before!
Regards,
The Over 40 Crowd
You are so right on so many level's. It is really pathtic how easy kids have it now a days. It is such a shame parents cannot displine they're own kids, and we all wonder why kids these days have no respect for others, and a "Do as I please" additude.
I sometimes wish I had that same remote control Adam Sandler did in the movie "Click" and rewind back in time.
How I miss those days when the only time you heard about something bad happening in Iran etc etc was to wait for Walter Cronkite, or read about it in the newspaper. Man how I miss my Atari 2600 playing Kaboom, or pitfall, or waiting for summer to go on a family vacation or camping. "Where have all the good times gone". I must admit though I am thankful for the remote ![]()
As for cell phone. These things have gone way out of control. Think about it, this has become one of the TOP reasons for car accidents. Kids with cell phones in school? Jesus man, we could not even bring our walkman to school back then. If you did the principal took it til the end of the day. No wonder kids spell what 'wat". I bet they can't even spell banana. Why are the teachers and principal's allowing cell phones in school anyways?
1st off..ROFL. I laughed til i cried. She hit the nail on the head with each one. I grew up in the eighties also. If it was time to come inside from outdoors, your parents would stand outside and yell down the street or clang a big bell. If you are not home at a specific time, you couldnt call their cell, you had to call the neigbors or call the cops
I grew up in the 80's, and though we had the NES, (That's the original Nintendo to the next gen) We still didn't have all the amenities provided now. My children, though still 10 and younger are not allowed to have cell phones, and only get about 3-5 hours a week for video games. Internet is prohibited since my oldest son's discovery of what that plus a debit card can do.... download games! Good grief! We had to go to a video rental place to rent a small selection of games, or the store to buy them. Now they download the games at home after sneaking into the wallet for the card! How lazy is our society going to get before we all wake up? Lady Tigrane, I salute you!